There are people out there who we count on when we are feeling our worst. These are the first responders, along with those who will care for us when a medical emergency arises. One of those individuals is the nurse that would care for us when we were in a hospital or those that take care of us when we visit the doctor. When they are skilled at what they do, it doesn’t matter how they look, we appreciate their kindness. Unfortunately, some people judge those nurses for the way that they look but the following fictional story teaches us all a lesson.
After work I went to the store to pick up a few things. While checking out, the cashier, looked at my name tag and said, “So what do you do there?”
I replied, “I’m a nurse.”
She continued, “I’m surprised they let you work there like that. What do your patients think about your hair?”
She then proceeded to ask the elderly lady that was in line behind me, “What do you think about her hair?”
The kind older lady said, “Nothing against you honey, it’s just not for me.”
Then the cashier continued to comment that they didn’t allow that sort of thing even when she worked fast food and that she was shocked that a nursing facility would allow that.
Well, here’s my thoughts. I can’t recall a time that my hair color has prevented me from providing life-saving treatment to one of my patients. My tattoos have never kept them from holding my hand and as they lay frightened and crying because Alzheimer’s has stolen their mind. My multiple ear piercings have never interfered with me hearing them reminisce about their better days or listening to them as they express their last wishes. My tongue piercing has never kept me from speaking words of encouragement to a newly diagnosed patient or from comforting a family that is grieving.
So, please explain to me how my appearance, while being paired with my cheerful disposition, servant’s heart, and smiling face, has made me unfit to provide nursing care and unable to do my job!